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Obituary: Violet M. Farney, 61
Published: December 26, 2023
By: Provided by Sundquist Funeral Home
Violet Marie
Farney
March 30th,
1962-December 20th, 2023
 Violet was the daughter of Raymond and
Virginia Cobb, a mother to Crystal Farney, Roger Cobb and wife Kelly, and Frederick
Farney whom we lost in 2007 as well as her daughter in law Kelly Cobb. The
sister of Raymond (Corkey) E. Cobb Jr, Darlene Lineberger, Virginia Boyle,
Gary Cobb, Danny Cobb, Deena Sixberry, and her little sister Tammy whom became an angel at 7 years old. She was married by heart
to Richard J Lafave. She was known as Mema to her
grandchildren Jaycob, Macinzy, Christian, Jayden,
Mason, Breckon, Hailey, Izain, Gabby, Shania, as
well as her great grandchildren Izzy, Carter, Brody
and William. She was more than an aunt to her nieces and nephews
especially Nickey and Troy and Chase Aubin and Megan Orton. Violet was
previously married to Loren l. Farney. She was family to many, Quinton
Ellis, Tina Taylor and so many more.
Violet, or as she
referred to herself, Queen Bee, was a remarkable woman wrapped in the love
of her family. When her kids were growing up, she spent her time teaching Sunday
school at Castorland Baptist Church, and volunteering at Lowville Academy.
She took immense pride in working at St Regis Paper Mill picking wood as
well as her role as a homemaker, especially in creating the infamous ice skating rink where family gathered for years in fun
and slightly competitive hockey games, her homemade totem pole and teepee.
She was also very proud of achieving her GED in her 30s, a testament to her
determination and resilience.
You never knew
what would come out of her mouth, whether it be a wacky or creative idea, a
joke that would make you pee your pants, or an unexpected outburst. She had
an uncanny talent for turning everyday activity into unforgettable memories.
Violet had a way with her words, expressing her emotions and thoughts in
her own beautiful and unique way. Embracing life with her love and zany enthusiasm she always found a way to make one smile and
chuckle. Recently while staying with her daughter
she found new passions for Pinterest, scoping the online aisles out for
gifts for her family and a mild obsession with Love Island. The hospital
staff formed a special bond and Violet soon became infamous for her
laughter, playful jokes and teasing. In the end
Violet found peace in reuniting with her son Fred, surely sharing jokes and
memories… Their joyful spirits reunited as they sing
and dance together creating smiles, laughter and love.
We invite all who
loved Violet to join her family in a celebration of her life on January 6th
at 2 p.m.
at Busted Grapes
Winery. She
always wanted to sing karaoke with her family at her nieces
winery and we are sure she will join us to
celebrate the
life we shared with her.
On-line
condolence of sympathy may be made to: www.sundquistfh.com
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